Leaving Home and Going Abroad(publish on weekend)
A lot of people think that the moon is rounder in other places than at home, however, the fact is the glass is no always grener on the other side. Study or living abroad maybe not the best choice for us.
Leave our hometown where have been lived in for a long time, and have to say goodbye to all the friends and parents, go to a brand new place alone. That won't be a good feeling.
But why we must go abroad? Because of the better study environment? But the Chinese culture and literature are board enough. Because of the good life? When we are in foreign country, we are just emigators, we can't omit the indirect glance frome others. Though we are full of knowledge and skillful, it's still a hard way to make foreigners to accept us as well. In my opinion, let others accept you is more difficulty than you adjust to the new sociey.
However, even though this thing stand still, plenty fo people prefer to leave and go to new places. In the past, I just found their advantage, how wonderful they will be! But now, I recognize more negative than that. The weather, the food, the language, the customes, and soon, all the thing they have to adjust to. With so many new challeages, do they ever want to give up, and find the have made a wrong descision? However, all that negative feeling we won't know. They just can hide all of this in their heart, no one can listen their difficulty carefully, because they are thouand kilmeters away.
Face the challeage and then manage to overcome it is good, but if not, what'll happened? It's no easy to take care of himself without any help,especially when one is sick.
Many parents choose the way of studying abroad for their children, it really can make them independent, however, it still a little crul to me. At the same time, if the only child of the family leaves her/his parents here and goes abroad alone to make a bright future for herself/himself, I aslo can't stand it, I can't escape from the scold at my heart.
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